Greater Rewards
Sunday, November 10 - Out Of Control
Discussion
NOTE: Don’t feel the pressure to ask all of these questions. You may want to prioritize which ones you think will generate the most discussion within your group.
Summary:
In Out of Control, the first message of the Greater Reward series, we tackle the common struggle of wanting real change but feeling stuck in old patterns. Drawing from Romans 7, we explore why willpower alone often falls short and why true transformation requires partnering with God’s Spirit. Through practical steps and a renewed understanding of discipline, we’ll discover how Christ’s power within us can help us choose what we want most over what’s easiest now, moving us closer to the person God designed us to be.
Ice Breaker:
What’s one small daily habit or routine that you enjoy?
General
What’s something you really want but find yourself consistently putting off or trading for short-term comfort? Why do you think that’s the case?
In Romans 7:15-19, Paul talks about his struggle to do what’s right. How does it feel to know that even Paul experienced this kind of tension? What stands out to you about his honesty?
Habits take time and discipline but good things come to those who wait. The problem is waiting is hard! Hebrews 12:11 “No discipline brings joy at first, but it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.” If you persevere in your efforts what will be the result?
What if you improve just 1% each day?
What’s one thing you’re hoping will change in your life over the next few months?
How can cooperating with God’s Spirit play a role in that?
What was your take away from the teaching?
Spend time this week working through the following questions:
Who can you confide in to get on the right path?
What do you need to confess?
Who do you need to be there for to hear their confessions?
What are your next steps?
Prayer Time:
Let’s each pray silently …Pray that you will be honest with yourself and others, open to accountability, and strengthened in your desire to choose God’s best over temporary wants.
What the World Needs Now
Sunday, November 3 - Self-Control
Discussion
NOTE: Don’t feel the pressure to ask all of these questions. You may want to prioritize which ones you think will generate the most discussion within your group.
Ice Breaker:
If you could go somewhere to get away, where would you go?
General
Comment on this verse: “Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.” Proverbs 25:28 NIV
What is a working definition of self-control?
Tell about a time you witnessed a lack of self control in yourself or in someone else.
Why is it hard to master self-control?
What are some of the results of a lack-of self control in a life?
Why is self-control important?
How does one go about growing in self control?
How does self-control impact your relationships with others?
What one take away from the teaching?
Prayer Time:
Grant me Father, I pray, a spirit of self control. May I face all issues of life with calmness and control, from self and over-indulgence. I pray for love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Amen.